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Rhonda Gay Elkins

Rhonda Gay Elkins
  • July 16, 1960 - August 29, 2014
  • Clarkton, North Carolina

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I don't think that Rhonda had any idea how many lives she touched. She was frequently so open, talking about many things that are usually kept silent. She used her voice, and she made a difference. She was kind, warm and caring. Her LOVE just poured out in her words...especially for her family. I don't know what else to say except that she was awesome, and that I will miss her very much.

My heart goes out to all of us

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Posted by: Christine Bastone - Lake Wales, FL - Friend   Sep 01, 2014

There are no words to describe Rhonda's passing into eternal life. I know she is now at peace. She was such a wonderful person. I am sure God came down and led her home.


Posted by: Peggy Montalbano - Raleigh, NC - great niece   Sep 01, 2014

My heart was broken when I heard about this ! I to have lost someone, and it has taken away my joy and filled my heart with pain. My prayers go out to Allen and her family may God comfort you as he has me.


Posted by: SondraAutry - Whiteville, NC - Friend   Sep 01, 2014

Rhonda touched the hearts & minds of so many after the devastating loss of Kaitlyn. I knew Rhonda through a global online community of those bereaved by suicide. Her eloquent & heartfelt writings were inspirational. I hope that her husband and daughter can feel the arms of the community Rhonda touched so deeply wrapped around them, holding them up. Rest peacefully in the arms of the angels Rhonda xxxx


Posted by: Jacqueline Williams - UK - Friend   Sep 01, 2014

Rhonda and I worked together at the hospital in Whiteville years ago. When she left to go to nursing school, we lost touch but had reconnected on Facebook. She will be missed by many because she was a very special lady.


Posted by: Deborah Dallas - Lake Waccamaw, NC - Friend   Sep 01, 2014

Rhonda my heart is broken for you and your family. Rest in peace sweet lady!


Posted by: Betty Hughes Clark - Nakina, NC - friend and former co-worker   Sep 01, 2014

My Heart goes out to Rhonda's Family. You have my deepest sympathies and Prayers. Sweet Beautiful Rhonda, I know your reunion with Kaitlin was Amazing and Beautiful. May God Bless you & your Family, Thank you for all the Love, Help and Support you gave to us all. God Bless & Fly High.


Posted by: Lori Norcross - Avon, MA - Friend   Aug 31, 2014

To Rhonda's family... my heart is broken for you. I met Rhonda in an online writers' community (KBoards) and did some editing for her on a short story she wrote about Kaitlyn. We only exchanged e-mails a few times, but it was so obvious that she was a sweet, loving person, someone I would have been glad to get to know better. I am so very sorry for your loss, and I wish you peace in the days ahead.


Posted by: Carol Davis - NY   Aug 31, 2014

Ally, Stephanie and the rest of Rhonda's family, I have no words that can take away your pain. My heart and love goes out to each and every one of you. Rhonda was a very loving, caring and special lady. She loved her family more than life itself. My prayers are that God give each of you the strength you need to get thru today and the days ahead of you. I don't think Rhonda ever realized how many lives

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Posted by: Trish Boswell - Clarkton, NC - Friend   Aug 31, 2014

My heart hurts for your family...May God give you peace and comfort beyond understanding...Rhonda touched many people and she changed many peoples minds about that mental illness is a disease...I am at a loss for words right now..I know the pain of suicide and all the ripples it causes....Please know that your mom's ripple is as tremendous as the wave of a tsunami....she will be missed by so many and cherished in their hearts forever...May God bless you.


Posted by: Iris Johnson Sistrunk - Vidor, TX - FB friend   Aug 31, 2014